I should get up and have a shower.
But I need the energy to get up first.
Hey Dean, I was wondering with your last reblog (the one about how it's never the victims fault if raped) if you believe that there are certain precautions you can take to reduce the chance of being raped? And no, I'm not saying it's their fault, it never is, but I personally think there are certain logical steps you can do to reduce the risk all together. Though I'd prefer a society where no one should have to worry about it of course :)
Oh yes, certainly. Don’t get me wrong.
Dressing scantily and getting completely wasted at the club, excessive flirting with strangers, walking through dark alleys by yourself, these are all stupid things to do and increase your risk of getting sexually assaulted.
A lot of girls out there do downright idiotic things when they go out, and engage in all kinds of risky behavior that you can’t defend.
But does that mean they deserve to get raped? No. No one does.
The way I see it, even if a girl comes to your party, gets drunk, gets naked and passes out on your bed, it is still 100% your responsibility not to touch her. Was she being an idiot? Yes, she was. Does that mean you can put your penis in her? No. :)
It’s the same way that walking through a dangerous neighborhood at night is stupid cause it increases your chances of getting mugged, but that doesn’t mean the mugger can pin it on you. That’s where the logic gets absurd.
You have to be careful, that’s on you, but you’re not responsible for the crimes others chose to commit.
this urn will turn you into a tree after you die
and you can choose what kind of tree you want to become
just imagine cemeteries looking like this
life after death
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I WANTthis is how all cemeteries should look. its awkward to hug a gravestone. imagine hugging your grandma/tree. ugh rebuild all cemeteries
Sometimes I drink too much vodka or eat 3 servings of macaroni and cheese in one sitting, but by far the most unhealthy habit I have is comparing myself to others.
This is one of my favorite things I’ve ever read on tumblr
"If there is a God, He will have to beg my forgiveness."
drunk me is the me i really want to be. confident, hilarious and, most importantly, drunk.